12.
A minor can not legally choose. If there is a court order for visitation it has to be followed and if not you can lose custody. It's your job to see to that the child goes. If you suspect the child is being harmed you have to report this.
The father has the right to visit with his child unless the court issues an order to the opposite.
When they can say it.
If your child doesn't want to see the father then the courts can not force them.
Yes.
Sole custody means you have all the power. You can choose to keep the father out of their life until the children turn 18 if you want to or you can allow visits.
See Link Below'Child Refusing To Visit Other Parent? Depends on where he lives. But if they don't want to for a good reason, they shouldn't have to.
Visitation and child support are not related. Just because the children do not visit does not mean they are no longer his children.
11 Depends on why...I think a child saying they don't want to visit grandparents/relatives could be a red flag...ask why they don't want to visit...
There are many places you want to visit in Australia. New Zealand is an island many people choose to visit.
Yes
If they don't want to go to school, do you allow that choice? Shouldn't the child be allowed to choose what they want to do or not in all things, or do you only consider this when it comes to custodial interference? see links