How should you flirt with a guy you don't know very well?

Answer 1

Nobody really teaches u how 2 flirt. Its just something that u pick up on.

In my opinion there r types of flirting. This is all I really know.

Total Stranger Flirt

This is for if its the first time u've seen the guy, like in a party.

It depends on whether you have been introduced 2 him or not.

If u haven't then:

Look at him subtlety from across the room.

Only 4 probs 2- 5 secs, no more. Do it often but make sure u are not alone cause that will look like u are desperate. When u do it if he looks at u, give him a sweet smile. If he is intent in his convo with other ppl and doesn't notice u then u can brush him 'accidentally' or walk past him 2 c if he notices u.

If u have been introduced 2 him by a friend then either stand next 2 him don't be noticeable if u are with a group or stand opposite him so u can look at him while still having ur convo.

Then when the time is right, just comment on something the group has said and ask him what he thinks about it. That is the easy starter 4 a convo, then casually talk about it and move on 2 other light stuff, then if he seems still intrested after a while then u can ask him more personal questions and talk about yourself.

When u laugh make sure u don't sound like a hyena or ur laugh is 2 loud cause that is a turn off. Only laugh in the right places, when it is actually funny, but never let him laugh by himself. Casually smile when u think the convo is getting awkward or if u have accidentally said something weird. Talk sweetly and make sure ur voice is not over the top. If u want 2 get closer 2 touch him whisper and lean in.

WHEN U FIRST MEET HIM

Don't:

Laugh unnecessarily

NEVER BITCH ABOUT SOME1

Smile too wide or 2 much, cause he might think ur obsessive.

Hug him or put ur arm around him

Hold his hand or sit on him

Look awkward

Judge something he's said

Say comments like "that was weird/stupid," "OMG no way!" "I can't believe u did that"

Talk about urself 2 much

NEVER OVER DO UR MAKEUP!

Don't flaunt ur boobs at him unless u want 2 be used.

DO

B urself

Wear nice clothes

Make sure ur hair is done

Wear some make up- I am talking a touch of lip gloss, mascara (light) maybe some foundation to hide pimples etc, or if u r looking a bit pale.

Make sure ur well groomed

B comfortable

B urself

Answer 2

Laugh at their jokes and play around with them they love that. Do not hit them or anything though.