considering my involvement with older men my advice would be to not tell your parents. Just move in with your older lover!
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Politely and calmly tell him that you are not interested. If he presses the issue, then tell him why you are not interested. If there is a reason other than his age, you can mention that instead.
Just be simple and straightforward: "I'm not interested in getting with a married man."
By her movements and how she looks at him.
You don't
They either don't pay attention to you or avoid you.
you don't act. Tell him your not interested or get yourself a girlfriend.
Tell the older man that his wife has a better memory than him.
if the married man keeps talking to the lady everyday. he is looking for the chance
Be straight forward. Tell him your not interested in him. Or tell him that its not a good time right now. But you want to tell him the truth at the start instead of dragging along his feelings like a dog on a leash.
Yes. He may be a more reserved & private man & if you intended to tell your parents, you should have let him know you were going to.
You really don't unless she is unusually straight forward. Even if you do feel she is the best thing to do is walk away - she is married.
Depends on how old you are. If you are under 18 it is considered sexual abuse by the older man and he will face criminal charges. Age DOES make a difference despite some of the modern views on the matter. I married a man 12 years older and even as an older adult myself I found there were differences on views in many areas as well he has physical problems that as an older man he faced. If you aren't willing to face the physical problems of an older man has I suggest you don't date or marry him. Many of these things are quite daunting.