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- The only response to a spouse have an affair on you is one of hurt; deceitfulness and the breaking of that bond of trust you thought you both had as well as taking your self respect away. Too many women are romantics or fear striking out on their own so they stick with a boyfriend or spouse because of it. and men often do the same thing. You are in charge of your life and destiny so sit down with your spouse and spell it out loud and clear you are not putting up with their affair and either they go to marriage counseling with you; make an effort to repair your relationship and they have to earn your trust back again or you will file for divorce. This should get the cheaters attention.
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How do you get over an affair which was perfect till one partner lost the desire is confused wth stress at work and homeStress not related with us we love our spouses also and were happy in our affair?
You should not of been having an affair in the first place. If you really loved your spouses you would not have begun the affair, nor would you feel the need to get over one.
What is involved to make an affair?
Two people willing to cheat on one or both of their spouses. It also involve selfishness.
If a woman knows of a spouses affair then chooses to stay but later on tries to use that against him in a divorce is that possible?
this info is likely to be used AGAINST the woman
What has the author Pamela Kilian written?
Pamela Kilian has written: 'Barbara Bush' -- subject(s): Presidents' spouses, Biography, Large type books 'Barbara Bush' -- subject(s): Presidents' spouses, Biography, Family 'Barbara Bush' -- subject(s): Biography, Family, Presidents' spouses 'What was Watergate?' -- subject(s): Juvenile literature, Watergate Affair, 1972-1974
Was Shania Twain married before Robert Mutt Lange?
No. They filed for divorce after she discovered Mutt was having an affair with her personal assistant. They have now "flip flopped" ex spouses.
Why don't those involved in an emotional affair get divorced from their spouses so they can be with the other person if they really love that person?
Because they don't love that person. They only "Love" themself.
Has anyone ever sued spouses mistress in Texas?
ANSWER:There no such things as suing another woman because your husband is having an affair with her. Your best solution is your husband, he is the one that pursue this woman. Sorry love!
What is the easiest way for two married people to carry on a secret affair?
You don't - and if you both feel you need to you both should not be with your spouses or in committed relationships, get a divorce - then you can do whatever you want. Think of it this way how would you feel if your spouses were doing this behind your backs. Affairs never end good so be realistic about this and stop what does not and should not be started to begin with.
We've established we like each other but are both married now what?
Your choice. If your feelings for each other is stronger than your feelings for your spouses maybe you should be getting divorces. Or you can pursue your mutual feeling like an affair, keeping you spouses in the dark (usually messy, nasty and unpleasant if you get caught) Or maybe your spouses are ever so understanding and forgiving that they'll wait fo you to have a fling and then return to them. Or you simply acknowledge your feelings w/o doing anything more about them.
Is it considered cheating if the spouses know about the affair?
If you are strictly dating one boyfriend or are married and you or both of you have cheated and been honest about it, it's still in the category of cheating. Learn from it! Cheating gets you nowhere, but a bad reputation. Marcy
What is an afternoon affair?
* 'Afternoon Affair' is just what it says. The people generally meet during the afternoon instead of the evening to continue with their affair. This can often happen in particularly the working class. It is more convenient. Men/women often find an Afternoon Affair more convenient as their spouses would expect them home after working hours. As bizarre as it may seem I have known one person who meet a certain gentleman once a year on the same date and has been doing so for 20 years. I don't ask why!
How can you tell if the affair you are having is turning into love?
You are in a dangerous situation. If the person you are having an affair with is cheating on their spouse, you must examine the possibility of that same person cheating on you with yet another person. Those who cheat on their spouses have no clue what a solid relationship is all about, and engaging in a love relationship with someone like that is probably not a good idea at all. In addition to the above remember that this is an affair and you, them or both of you already have a spouse and in most cases this is just something on the side and someone does not want to leave their spouse especially for someone that is willing to have an affair.
