I'm 19 and have been told by my doctor that I have to have kid by 21 due to a medical condition but my boyfriend is 18 and doesn't want kids what should I do I know I am ready for kids but he isn't?

Answer 1

I believe that you should go be artificially inseminated. You can still have children with your boyfriend when he is a year or two older. And you will still have time to have kids, and not worry about running out of time.

I think that the problem is with the guy, how long have you been together? Is this really the person you see yourself being with him? Do you really see yourself with him forever? You need to answer the questions before you make a choice about what to do for sure. But I would say, if you do go the artificial route, your just going to be having the same problem with the guy. Maybe dropping him so you could have the child would be your best bet. You can always find a good guy that wants a family, but your doctor is telling you that you will not have all the time you need to make a child of your own. So to get to the point. Find a good family minded man to be with.