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I actually had a similar situation, except at an older age. I am 20 years old, and got my first gf 4 and a half months ago. I had a MASSIVE crush on this girl I had just met at work; she is gorgeous. I planned on asking her out on valentines day; at work(we worked on valentines day together) she pulled me aside asking which guy she should accept as her valentine; 2 of the 4 guys that were asking her were BEST friends of mine. I didn't say anything about my crush but instead gave her my legit advice. I became best friends with her and we are very close and trusting of everything, but I don't have that attraction anymore; I think it was more of lust back then.

I tell you this because she was taken and I was depressed because I couldn't conjure up the courage to tell her my feelings at the time. It seems you have a similar situation. She is taken, and you must wait. If you think that they will break up sometime soon in the future then wait patiently and ask her when available(not too soon after, but not too late either). If you think they will be together for a while and can't wait, then maybe you should risk it and tell her how you feel. This will only work if you guys are already good friends. If you are a stranger to her(or not good friends) it is highly doubtful that she will break up with her bf for you.

I suggest that you wait for her to break up with him, or you find another girl in the meantime and see what happens. Don't waist your life waiting on her though! If it is meant to be, then it will be.

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Q: I am 16 and have a crush however i have had it for 2 years now and the person is going out with someone what should i do and do you think this is more than a crush?
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