I am around 20 weeks pregnant is it normal that when my mother felt my belly she said it was too soft and not big enough has anyone else gone through this because I've felt kicking and seen it?

Answer 1

No offense intended, but if your mother isn't a medical professional, she likely doesn't know what she's talking about. It sounds like you've been tested and confirmed pregnant, (and maybe had an ultrasound?), so why would your mother try to tell you that you aren't pregnant? If you haven't been tested and you believe you are pregnant, get tested, at the doctor's office, the home tests are pretty accurate, but not 100% like medical labs.