I hate my buddy's girlfriend She meddles with other people's lives and just uses him How do I get him to wake up and dump her?

Answer 1

You should just be straight up with your friend. Talk to him face to face and not on myspace/msn/facebook/bebo or whatever you go on, because people react differently when you confront them and speak to them face to face. Its like you're showing respect at the same time as addressing a serious problem.

What you might see of your friend's girlfriend might be completely different to what your friend sees in her. He obviously chose her because there was something he liked about her, whether it was her looks, personality, background or just common interests. Make sure that he's aware of how she acts around you. This is something you should tell him. Explain that she's really horrible when he's not around, that she talks about you quite a lot and it's not always nice things.

Tip: don't tell him what she says. This just puts YOU into the situation, when really you should be focusing on showing your feelings about what's going on.

Do you think getting involved in other people's lives is a bad thing? Maybe she just has a keen interest in you as her boyfriend's friend, and she's trying to include you. This may be her way of showing that she wants you to know she's trying her best.

Hate is a strong word - do you know her well enough to hate her? Is there enough evidence of her bad intentions, or do you just hate her because shes going out with your friend (male). I'm not saying you're jealous, but maybe you should ask yourself why you would hate this person. What traits do you hate in her, and why does she deserve to be in your bad books?