I still feel confused about my Ex what do I do?

Answer 1

Never too easy to let go:

I have been in this situation before, and it is not easy to get over someone that you cared for deeply. The key to all break ups is courage. You have to have the will power to say, " No I'm done, I'm the bigger person." You might not think that it will work but it will.

Understand and learn:

You must learn to understand why the break up, or fall out happened. See who was to blame, and see who was the victim. This is a battle that you must fight yourself. There is no one else that can help you, but yourself. Understand that you are single, standing on your own two feet.

Pick your battles wisely:

You can not let a man make you feel so down. You must learn to pick yourself back up, be determined to fall in love again. The best thing to do, is to stand up to him/her. You can not let that person have you feeling fear when around that person.

Take baby steps:

Take full control of this, and take one step at a time. There is no reason to be making big jumps. You end up starting right where you left off. Tired, sad, and lonely. Find ways to have fun, so your ex does not come into your head. Stay near friends, and family.

Silence never solves anything:

It is also great for you to talk to someone about how you are feeling. The worse thing you can do, is call your ex and start begging, or feeling sorry and taking the blame. It might sound really hard to believe, but talking to your mother is the best ladies. Trust me, i did it and it saved me from alot of pain. Even if your mother did not like him/her, she wants to be apart of this, and help her child.

Stand up for yourself:

Never let him/her make you feel down. That just makes the issue one million times worse. Sing songs that make you feel empowered, dance in your room when there is nobody looking, become more happy with yourself. But the most important thing is, smile, be happy, no tears, and enjoy life - one step at a time.

Steps to take:

1. Let all the tears out that you can

2. Have no fear of seeing that person

3. Enjoy being free

4. Speak to someone about your feelings

5. Eat, and take care of yourself

6. Pray for help

7. INDEPENDENCE

8. Do things that make you smile

9. Take a walk everyday to relax and cool off

10. one step at a time

GOOD LUCK!

P.S~ I have been through this myself, and i know it is not easy. I did all the things i listed above, and they worked. You must have faith in whatever you do. No matter the situation.

Answer 2

In all honesty, you need to find someone new to move onto. Life is about living for the moment and standing still thinking about what you want to happen will not improve your life, however taking action will. If you truly want to be in a relationship with your ex, communicate that to them. Meet with them, explain your feelings and hope for the best. If their opinions differ from yours about a relationship, than that person isn't right for you. There is always someone who wants to be with you so be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don't matter, but those who matter don't mind.

Good luck and no matter what happens, it happened for a reason because there is someone out there for you; Go find them.