Your husband loves another woman and having an emotional affair?

Answer 1

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And that's what I called being in a shaky ground wondering if sooner or later it might go permanently. With all of the fear that we all face and accepted, one thing that most of us don't want to face is finding out that our husband or wife might fall in love with someone else while still in our life. Just like our parents, we wonder if they love us enough no matter what, but having a sibling is the one that gives us strange vibe, we learn to compit with our sister or brother for the love of our parents. I do know how you feel because I had experience it from the man I married. Never thought it will happen to me. Yes the words " I never thought will happen to me" is real and do happen every single day of our life.

Without all the details the day he told me that he fell in love with the other woman, one thing that hit me, I ask myself now I am on this competition for his love and attention. From the time I do know our life will never be the same anymore. It doesn't matter if they break up or not, but knowing his heart is split in two, is a bad sign that I must now face. I know that it might happen again even if its not with this woman. So since then our life is been strange even though that we are married. Now the only thing I can tell you about your feelings is be brave, be strong, and tell him if his going to stay with the marriage, sharing is not the way that you can live with..

Answer 2

If a man or woman is having an emotional affair with someone other than their spouse that is very demanding, very draining and very wrong. In order to stop this form of adultery the man or woman must break the connection with the other person and stop fantasizing about the other person.

Find a wholesome distraction. A person who smokes knows that things which create the urge to smoke and the habits that go along with smoking like having a cup of coffee or a cup of tea.

Sometimes it is as simple as having a habit of lighting up a cigarette when one speaks on the phone or watches TV. Therefore, a smoker has to stay away from the circumstances, the people and the places that cause him/her to want to light up a cigarette.

It is also a case of will power. One must have to will to want to overcome the habit. Divine power is also available. Help is just a prayer away, no matter how simple, to ask for divine help.

Whatever you do, and whatever situation you are facing, remember that you can overcome.

If the grass seems greener on your neighbor`s side then I would suggest that you fertilize your own grass.

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When married men stray, you can be sure that they will end up having a strong relationship with the other woman. It will be easy for them to have feelings towards the other woman because she is new, exciting, her qualities is so much different from his wife, so yes your husband will have that fascination towards her, that will turn into love. I will give you my personal experience, and you will see that its natural for a man to fall in love with another woman, esp. if she is much younger that you.

My husband met this woman on a dating site, and their friendship develop very quickly. As soon as they met face to face, the connection was there without knowing each others that long. My husband become fascinated by this woman, so for this the relationship started. He was connected with her emitionally. But if we pay attention, men in general will go through emitonal connection with the other woman. All the talk, all the secret he have, the sex life that he doesn't have anymore. Yes emotional affair is a bit more dangerious when it comes to one night stand. The other woman did got to know my husband. With their connection that when his feeling for her develop, without asking if he is falling in love with her. The result of his connection was he fell for this woman. So this are some that will happen if your husband had the emotional affair with the other woman.

I do am sorry that you also experiencing it. I do know the pain knowing how special their relationship is. All you can do now if give yourself time and space. Think about making a decision, do you want to continued with your husband or let him go. ...................good luck!

Answer 3

• It is not wise to second guess that your husband is having an emotional affair and unless you have proof to accuse him of such it could ruin your marriage. Communication between spouses is extremely important so take time out to sit down and communicate with your husband. Often couples get busy in their daily lives and pass each other every single day like two ships in the night. It's always a good idea to take even a half hour a day to touch base with each other whether it's discussing problems one or both of you have or simply asking how each others day went and, if there are problems then discuss them and come to the best solution you both can come up with to resolve some of the problems. You could also let your husband know that you feel he has lost interest in you and ask him if he is thinking of seeing someone else. Do not accuse him of having any affair. Many people can have emotional affairs such as fantasizing about another person of the opposite sex and it's normal to a point. Sometimes when married life gets boring (and we can all get bored once in awhile) it is not uncommon at all for either the wife or husband to fantasize about another person and there is no law against an emotional affair as long as it's 'look and don't touch.'

Answer 4

Well then ... talk him through it