I want to go to this club but my mum wont let me but im old enough and i could sneak out because im staying at my friends but my mum will probably phone her mum so any excuses so mum wont phone her mu?

Answer 1

Coming from someone older, I'm going to say your mum, as spoken, probably knows something you don't about the club.

Sneaking out will only create an aura of distrust between you and your parent(s). If she knows to contact your friend's mother, then it's possibly there now. Rebuild, pick up after it, and talk to your mother about the club.

Maybe she will share with you what she knows. I know as a youth myself, I wanted to be a part of everything that was around me (I am 28 now). There were many times that I learned that concerned friends and family had warned me away not in the spirit of ruining my fun, rather for the sake of knowing I would be very unhappy there. I learned the hard way with quite a few things due to my bullheadedness.

One thing you'll find is that if you trust the people close to you, they will look out for you. Wait a few years or until it is more clear, the club will not go anywhere.

And this probably is not the answer you wanted, but it is heartfelt and well-meant. I have not yet met a single parent in my life who desired any member of their personal family to live a shut-in life without any exciting experiences or memories.