If all your relationships are long ones why have all the men cheated on you even the one where sex was amazing for both of you?

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Have you masturbated? That was pretty ok wasn't it? Loving someone is not necessarily how great the sex was. So if you were wondering about why it didn't last then ask yourself, did I really care about my index finger? They cared about you as long as the orgasm lasted, just be really honest and you will, surprise find the truth. XXX What do you consider a "long" relationship? Some people think that sex makes a relationship. While many people may joke about the fact my statement is true, it's not true! Sex is actually the least part of a great relationship. What about a person who has had problems and sex is very difficult for them, or what about your mate being so sick (perhaps dying) they could care less about sex or anything else? I sure wouldn't leave my husband if (God forbid) he was too sick to have sex. There is friendship, loyalty and pure love. You actually care more for that person than seeking your own pleasures!!! Since man has been on earth they live, breath and "gotta have it" type of sex, so yes, if you stay in long relationships with men that simply have nothing on their mind when they see you, but sex and only sex and you perform like a trained seal, these types of men grow weary of one partner and seek others out. Sounds from your statement that all you talked about were the toys involved and about sex and not much else. These men not only find straight sex (without the toys) boring, so it's in their personality that they like their sex adventuresome and on the wild side. I am sorry to say, but your partners simply have out-grown you. From now on think this way, "Why give away free milk, when they should be buying the cow!" These are the very words I used on my present husband because he was terrified of marriage (he was never married before) and once I left for a short time he realized how much he loved me and we have now been married 33 years. Don't give yourself away so freely and realize that there is more to a human being than just sex. Sex is pleasurable for sure, but there are other things in a relationship much more valuable such as commitment no matter what, love and caring and you are able to talk to your mate about anything without being afraid of appearing weak or moody. That's love!