What should you tell your mom when you tell her you crossdress?

Answer 1

Yes you should because from the stories I've read it concerns a lot of mothers helping out there sons with crossdressing i am a 14 year old crossdresser also with no sisters though i have only told a few friends i cannot come up to my mother about it because our relationship isn't very good so its hard to go alone if your mother is understanding then yes go for it its been a few months now that I've found my passion but am having trouble with it because i cannot attain girl's clothing so it struggles me and makes me very frustrated if you confront your mom about this then she will likely get you your own wardrobe.

I've been trying to sew my own girl's clothes but it's not that great i love female attire and it kills me not to be able to wear any real girl's clothes like mini skirts tank tops and tight jeans and such also long hair is an issue if you could get a wig that could help you look more feminine that's really all i have to say so yea good luck.

AnswerYes you should it is natural but make sure she understands that you are like that and that's something you can't change

Answer 2

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Yes, you should tell at least your mother. She will eventually find out anyway. Learn as much as you can about crossdressing off www.Google.com and then try to explain how you feel to your mother. I have no doubt she will be shocked at first, but she loves you and you can both work from there.

Good luck

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I believe that, although it will be very, very hard, you should try to tell your mother. There are many other answers on crossdressing on this website, which can all be of great help. Your mother will most likely understand and will help you to decide whether you want to continue dressing, and if you do, she will likely understand. Many people in the world crossdress; you are not alone. Your mom will not be enraged, just shocked. Everything will turn out better than it was before, and a huge burden will be lifted off of your shoulders.

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By all means , tell your Mother. If she goes up in smoke , ask her to take you to a therapist. The therapist can explain it to her , and also help you understand it better yourself. If you have other tendencies or confusion, the therapist can help you identify just what's going on with you and suggest a way for the family to accept whatever the final decision is, and how to deal with it as a family.

Answer 3

dont tell her...

if you decide to tell her then pick a time when shes relaxed and not in a mood or something then tell her you want to talk to her oh and by the way talk to her in somewhere sutible like your bedroom

then say to her mom can i crossdress she will be shocked i can insure you but wait for her reply before you do enything els if she says something like are you gay do you wear my clothes etc tell her the truth she will be more accsepting of you if you tell the truth ask her if you can have some of your own feminin clothes and your sorted :)

good luck!

Answer 4

Tell you want to express yourself differently, you know, try new things. I don't know why she wouldn't be ok with you expressing yourself. For instance, I told my folks I wanted to be completely different, because of my liking for Neon Colors and glitter, they were ok with it for the most part, my dad was TOTALLY against it and wouldn't speak to, or so much as look at me for awhile, but I told him to get over it, and after awhile, he did. He gets it. Im a scene girl =^_^=

Good Luck.

Answer 5

The best approach is gentle honesty.

Sit her down, away from others or distractions. Explain to her that you are a crossdresser, what it entails, what it means to you, and that it is something you want her to be aware of because it is something that means a lot to you. Also tell her that she doesn't have to like it, but you want her to accept it. And that you will be willing to answer any questions she might have.

Answer 6

Tell your mom that you need to talk to her about something serious, tell her everything is okay but you need her to be able to sit and talk through some things with you so to find a time when she can give you her full attention. Once you go to talk to her explain that you want to cross-dress and what this means to her, for example you may want to just wear clothing or make-up traditionally associated with women but that this doesn't mean that you're gay or transgender - obviously you may be these things too, but be clear about what this means in your case. Hopefully your mom will support you and understand your want to cross-dress, but know there are people who can support you if your mom doesn't respond well - maybe talk to a teacher you trust so they can be there with you if you fear how your mom may react, the teacher can be there to help make sure you're safe.