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If you are a lesbian and you have a best friend that acts a lot like she is a lesbian and you like her what do you do?
Lesbianlove209
Well, first of all, you want to make SURE that your best friend is showing signs of a lesbian. If not, you could take a risk by confronting her and telling her how you feel.
What are the risks of telling my best friend I am a lesbian? A question most people would ask, most likely. You could end up making her feel uncomfortable around you, and basically losing your friendship, if she turns out not being a lesbian. But, if your best friend was a true friend, she would understand the way you are and still be your best friend, even though she may not be a lesbian.
Possibilities:
She could be BI. (Someone who is interested in both genders.) Which means she could show signs of being a lesbian, but is not fully interested in that one gender (girls.) she could also be intersted in men.
If I were you, I would make sure that she was a lesbian, or BI, before putting your friendship on the line.
This is coming from me, my opinion only: If I were your best friend, I would feel a little upset, since I am not lesbian and all. I have a lesbian friend and she knows for a fact that I am NOT lesbian or BI. But, she still feels feelings for me. This upsets me because she should know, that knowing her for many years, I would probably feel the slightest of uneasy or feel uncomfortable, (Not that I don't love her, family wise.), and yet she still goes and confesses her feelings to me and hopes that I feel that in return. It angers me that even though she knows I am not like that, she still shows her feelings towards me, which obviously (probably in any friendship) would drive a tiny wedge between the two friends.
The above is just an explanation of what a real friend in this situation feels. I hope this is not what your friend will feel when and if you confess to her.
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