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just drop that friend and find another


Sounds like he is not on the same page as you are. For some reason, it is paying off for him to start an argument. Look at what you do in response. If you become conciliatory, try reacting in a different way. For instance, just listen and then ask him what he wants to do about it. Don't solve the problem for him by changing your opinion or trying to explain.

Sometimes it just is the way we react with a certain person. You can love their essence, but just not get along enough to be friends. You'll have to decide, but seriously, consider if he is a positive element in your life. Some arguing is abusive; and he may be trying to control you, particularly if he is critical of your actions, accusing you of not behaving properly or blaming you for starting the argument.
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Q: If you are always arguing with your friend but you are very close what should you do when it is usually him who starts the argument?
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