Asked in Marriage and Relationship Counseling
If you are married to a man who is selfish and cold and readily admits it and refuses to go to marriage counseling should you divorce him or stay with him for the sake of the kids?
God hates divorce. What you should do is stay married to your husband and pray for him. If you are not a christain, you need to accept Jesus Christ as your lord and savior. Pray! Prayer changes things. God never asked anyone to stay in a marriage that had any type of abuse and marriage is based on trust, loyalty, and RESPECT! Once children come into the marriage the children come first and it should be in the interest of these children that they are kept safe by all means and that includes divorce. I am was divorced because my first husband was abusive and am a Christian and I never fear that God would not forgive me. There is nothing to forgive for you can lead a horse to water, but not make them drink! If you have tried your very best and your partner isn't then it's best to leave for the sake of the children.