I'm currently initiating divorce proceedings with my N. I know that staying with him would eventually drive me insane..... and that doesn't bode well for das kinder, we have 2 young daughters. I feel solely responsible for providing a model to the girls for how healthy adults interact. What I've provided so far..... isn't acceptable. You have to ask what your goals are, IMO. If raising healthy children is a priority.... and you can't DO that within the marriage.... then you're duty bound to get into some counseling yourself, and leave. Either way.... get some counseling. get the children some counseling. Provide healthy models if you can and limit the trauma inflicted to your children by the N. What else can you do? Oh ya.... you COULD convince yourself that you're staying in the relationship FOR YOUR CHILDREN'S sake.... when you're actually using them as an excuse to stay because the pain of going is as bad as the pain of staying. Let's face it.... N's are attractive in many ways to us or we wouldn't be with them. No shame there.... most people are attracted N's intelligent charming larger than life energy force. It's hard to make huge life altering changes. Hard to go against the N's wishes. Hard to divorce under any circumstances. We all avoid pain when we can. It's only human. Be kind to yourself but don't choose the path that seems easiest in the moment. Be mindful, now that you're aware, of every choice you make. You have the power to make good choices, as well as bad ones. Educate yourself and visualize the future you want your children to have. You're going to be hurting, no matter what path you choose so..... you may as well choose the one that will be rewarding and rich, for you AND your children, in the end. Also be aware of the tremendous pressure your N will exert on you..... fairly nonstop if he's unwilling to give you up. It's daunting and you will be in tremendous pain and confusion. The temptation to end that immediate discomfort will nag at you but you can choose to remain strong and stick to your path. Every break up leads us into a void... dark and painful. It's good to remember that you will eventually come out of it.... and you will feel joy again. That's just part of being human too. Be strong..... if not for yourself.... then do it for your child.... if you feel it's warranted. Indulge your interests and passions... get busy, even if you don't feel like it. One good feeling, forced or otherwise, leads to another and that's the way you heal. Fake it till it becomes reality. Ask your friends for help and support. Be honest with them and never stop growing. ::end rant, lol:: Tremusan
1990 then split up in 2005
1990 and then split up in 2005
no you're better off with one because if they rub together they might split! have fun :)
"Which one is better split AC or window AC?""Which one is better split AC or window AC?"
They split up because Beyonce screw it up. All the song from Destiny's Child is all about her.
This happens a lot because the father is jealous of the other man. (I think so anyways) He is scared that his child will like this other man better because he is around more that he is. Its even worse if the kid is a girl because fathers and brothers are very protective over daughters/sisters.
yes, just as an older child can have split personalitys they just cant be treated for it.
they were never together.
No , they have split.
The New Jersey colony was the Middle Colonies that was split in half and then put back together.
they were never together. he went to juliets fathers masqerade to see rosaline and saw Juliet and thought she was better looking and would make a better love.
Pangea was the supercontinent that split into two: Gondwanaland and Laurasia.
that would be my guess if they where such a jerk in the first place.If they where that rude and unfeeling it's probably for the best your split up.
It is important for the West that Muslims split to weaken them and get better control on their resources.
they have not split up they are staying together forever that is what they said on twitter
It was always a union of republics and split in 1990s when it couldn't be kept together.
June 13, 2005
They haven't, they are still together!
No they are still together
They were bought back together by Director Vance he was looking for a mole that's why he split them up in the first place.
They would not be okay
so actually weezer has always been together people think they split up because they didn't make albums for a long time but for two years in a row they've made better albums than ever.
They did not split. They are just very busy with their own music and concerts. Even though they haven't had a concert together in a while does not mean that they have split upon each other. They still are together and I hope FOREVER!
Difference in income