If you have feelings for a girl and she has feelings for you but you are young what do you do?

Answer 1

well firstly, does she know you have feelings for her? if not then tell her. and even if you think she does, tell her again. if she does know for sure, try talking to her about the situation. this can be awkward, but worth it in the end. are you worried about how it can affect your life or about how things would be between the two of you? this may not be so, but if it is, then firstly, everything affects ones life in some way and secondly you can never know until you do something about it. a thing that you could do, if your at an age where both of your parents think it's okay and other people your age are as well, you could "date her", why not? if both of you have feelings for each other then there shouldn't be a problem there. if you aren't at that age, then you could at least have a mutual understanding of each others feelings. maybe you are at a time in your life where you may be thinking you don't know if a relationship would last, or could last, past the level of school you are at. yes, it is rare for people to stay together past highschool, but it DOES happen. if you two are truly special to each other, you can make it work. if your not in highschool yet, then you still have a ways before you need to worry about something like that. i hope i have been able to help at least somewhat, and am sorry if i was completely off in my guessing of the situation. best of wishes and good luck.