Contact your local Legal Aid office. They will have lawyers willing to work "pro bono" (for free) to assist indigent persons. Go get some education. Finish your high school education at the very least. There are lots and lots of programs to train people that WANT to work. Your local County or City offices are great places to start.
A husband has no legal obligation to support his mother-in-law.
If the husband wants to provide financial support to his wife, he can certainly do it. It is not mandatory, unless it is part of the legal separation or divorce agreement.
my ex-husband and I were married 20 years. Can I draw from his VA disability?
All of that is covered in the new procedures of Washington State Divorce Court. Most Book store carry Do It Yourself Divorce Books that will have all the guidlines according to the state in which you live.
child support cannot be cleared
No. It has no effect on the court order between the two of you.
I WAS MARRIED IN ANTIGUA IN 2005.. I WOULD LIKE TO GET A DIVORCE FROM MY HUSBAND. I AM LIVING IN CANADA AND WOULD LIKE TO DIVORCE HIM FROM WITHIN CANADA. HE IS LIVING IN ANTIGUA. CAN I ALSO GET SPOUSAL SUPPORT FROM HIM?
Divorce and domestic violence are separate issues. Not signing the divorce papers may not prevent the wife from getting the divorce and won't change any of the orders of the divorce such as property distribution, child support, etc.
Not exactly. In Illinois, child support cannot be ordered past the age of majority but "education support" can be. One or even both parents may be ordered to pay education support, based on the child's academic expenses. Education support must also be ordered by a judge, separately from a child support order.
You need to take her to court to get costody of them if you do not want her to have them
A new child support arrangement should be made part of the present divorce proceeding. Your legal circumstances have changed. The court should be made aware of any other court actions that have involved you and your husband.
If you're the noncustodial parent, you might be liable. The fact that your husband has a child by someone else is irrelevant to this.