If you know your wifes had an emotional affair with a a guy that's a friend of family no sex was involved just heavy duty flirting and your wife really really loves you and you really love her would?

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Well this is my story, I got engaged and after few days i lost interest in her I never Brooke the relation. After sometime i moved aboard and we were communicating thorough phone. Then i started liking her since she had a very good heart and a girl from Indian village having no bad background of affairs. That was my biggest attraction towards her. Then we started getting close and she opened up. one fine day she told me she had a affair with one of her cousin for just 4 - 5 months and that was just through phone. They did not get into any kind of physical or nor they have met since he lived in a different city. It was only through phone. This really scattered me, i don't know should i trust her or investigate. Am absolutely not worried about her relation but did she have any physical contact. One day i broke up asking her about this. Listening to this she just went on crying and said she loves me very much, please don't leave me and i cannot leave without you. Please trust me. She also said she never had any physical relation with him nor they met anytime it was only through phone. I was really moved by her words of love for me. I still want to marry her. But the thoughts of her affair and she might have had physical relation which a Indian girl will never tell you are haunting me. My Blood Pressure is getting higher and higher because of this. I want to trust my wife, but somehow not able to control. i want to stop thinking about this and leave a decent life with her. Not sure what i should be doing. For some reason I want to know what happened between them. Either she is not letting me know or there wasn't anything. Please help