If you lost your virginity when not a Christian to your ex but are now a Christian with a new Christian boyfriend and want to wait until marriage does the Bible say you can take back your virginity?

Answer 1

• No you can't take back your virginity. I would just recommend that you don't tell your new boyfriend what happened.

• It doesn't say you can take back your virginity, but as a Christian who has lived a similar life, I believe this... God honors your decision to accept His son as your Savior and in His eyes you are pure, clean, flawless ... our sins before salvation are literally non-existent. Enjoy your spiritual journey with God, it is amazing... and pray that you and your boyfriend remain strong in your decision. My belief is that your wedding night with him will be beyond all you can imagine simply because of your commitment to wait. I suggest, obviously, that you be honest with your boyfriend. I believe that that by faith you can get your virginity back. Just as with enough faith you can have pregnancy which doesn't hurt, you should be able to do the same. Trust God!

• One person recommends "don't tell your new boyfriend," another suggests "be honest with your boyfriend." Your motive for telling him is crucial. Don't tell him unless he asks, but tell the truth if he does. You are forgiven by God! So never tell your new boyfriend just to make yourself feel better or less guilty. Be wise, kind & insightful into your boyfriend & yourself. Honesty is not the best policy at times.

• You can't become a virgin again, but you can be forgiven and continue to do things the right way this time, but I do recommend telling your boyfriend and being completely honest.
• ask your boyfriend if it would really matter? if he loves you, and you are truly sorry than it shouldnt.
• Just tell him and if he leaves you, well, serves you right for joining a bogus religion. Besides, losing your virginity is technically a medical term, which you can't get back once it's lost (think about not getting the same cold twice).

• My answer to this question would simply be no, you cannot get your virginity back but you can be honest about it.

• I think that you can't, but that you will be forgiven if you go to the priest and ask to be saved.
• Honestly the real answer lies with God. Do not doubt the power of the lord. If you truly have become a christian now, you should know what to do. God would not want you to lie. If your boyfriend kept that from you or if you asked him, you'd want him to be honest. Be honest. Do not be ashamed. You know the decision to sin was wrong of you and by asking god to forgive you and truly be sorry for the sin you've committed god will understand and forgive you. If your boyfriend is a true christian he will be there for you and be supportive and also forgive you for your actions. Just be true. You already feel guilty for committing the sin of premarital sex. Do not commit another by being untrue to your boyfriend. Could you live with the guilt of not telling him?

AnswerI think you should be honest. Communication is the cornerstone in a relationship. God has completely and absolutely forgiven you and you are now a Saint robed in white. But I don't feel that things would be the same. One thing that can destroy relationships is secrets. My husband and I don't have any. When we started dating both of us were Christians and devoted to stay pure till marriage. He had had some encounters(no intercourse just borderline stuff) and it was literally killing him inside. Before we even started dating he had to confess what he had done, he was afraid that I would be repulsed by what he had done. I forgave him for that and it hasn't caused a problem in our relationship at all, it helped create a mood of trust and acceptance. Try 2 Corinthians 5:17 if you are facing condemnation by people or yourself! "Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; the old has gone, the new has come!"

actually you can become repurified i did it and it feels great