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People only treat you the way you allow them to and realistically why would you go back on something you believe in - you shouldn't settle for less as no one deserves this. Go with your gut instinct as it is rarely wrong and take things into your own hands to find out the truth. You cannot turn a blind eye and then have it be a happy relationship on your end while he is having his cake and eating it too - if adultery is the case. About Trust! You value "trust" very highly, but how do you value "suspicions?" No relationship can be sustained when you have the kind of suspicions that you voice. Did it ever occur to you that you might be wrong? Why haven't you confronted the man? Why haven't you said to him that you have certain reasons - and you must be ready to state those reasons - to suspect that he has another relationship? Of course, turning a blind eye is the ultimate failure to be honest in a relationship. Don't you think that your behavior, with your suspicions lurking in the back of your mind, disposes you to be less forthcoming, less loving? Get things off your chest! He probably suspects already that you do not trust him. An honest relationship is the prerequisite to a good one. Open up your suspicions. But introduce them by exclaiming that "I feel that they (suspicions) are wrong and I would feel bad if I wrongly accused you. Much luck! More on "Going 'through' the Problem" in the book reference on my Bio Page.

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It is possible to turn a blind eye and continue the relationship, but doing so may create underlying trust issues and emotional strain. Ignoring suspicions without addressing them could lead to resentment or further damage the trust in your relationship. Communication and seeking clarification with your partner about your concerns may be a healthier approach to preserving trust and finding resolution.

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Q: If you suspect your partner of being unfaithful but have no proof is it possible to turn a blind eye and continue to have a happy relationship even though you value trust very highly?
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