If you want to spice up your sex life how do you bring it up to your wife?

Answer 1

This woman is your wife. You should be able to talk to her about anything. You should set up the conversation by talking about sex in general. Once both of you are comfortable talking about the subject, ask her what she would want to do to spice up your sex lives. Tell her what you want. Eventually, you will reach a compromise. Most importantly, when you are talking you need to be understanding and open, as so should she, to what is being said. I know it's hard for many men to even talk to their wife about SEX (depending on how long they have been married) for fear of getting "the stare" as she's running around after kids, perhaps busy with her own career, studying, etc. If you can plan a nice weekend away. Somewhere romantic. It could as simple as a nice hotel on the beach (walking on the beach at any time is wonderfully romantic and the moon sure doesn't hurt either.) Let Mother Nature take care of the rest.