If your wife yells at you all the time does she really love you?

Answer 1

It is true that self-respect and respecting your partner has a lot in common with loving yourself and your partner.

But she yelling at you or anyone is a habit that she personally has to learn to control, yelling angrily does not make someone get what they want, but instead add more unfortunate emotional problem to all the other piles of emotional conflicts couples are facing these days.

I believe it's a door to communication, to help her and bring your marriage alive.

Somebody who is angry and is yelling is afraid, she has a fear inside of her.

Do not try to found out what she fears the worst, but instead try to bring the trust in her with as much comfort as possible.

I am sure she loves you and is maybe scared of losing you.

Approaching for communication to an angry person is important; do not blame her for anything, do not criticize her.

Avoid phrases like this: 'You should stop!" or Why do you?"

Instead, tell her how you feel: 'I feel like i did something wrong, i want to know how i can get your help on a certain matter...?"

" I feel hurt/embarrass when I hear you raise your voice while addressing me'

Do not tell her she's screaming or yelling at you. Good luck;-)

Answer 2

Yelling at someone does not necessarily mean someone does not love them. Love and communication are complex, and people express their emotions differently. It is important to have open and honest conversations about your feelings and concerns with your spouse to better understand each other's perspectives and work towards a healthier, more respectful relationship.