Well, if your in a relationship and your bf can get over his ex, you try and help him through. Like maybe (not exactly) but act like his... personal therapist i guess you could call it. All you have to do is figure out WHY he can't get over his ex and try and make him forget all about it. If he refuses to forget, you can either move on, or say if he keeps moping around like a wimp you guys are over. Simple as that.
Your relationship has been on and off for 7 years. That is why you still can't get over him. Circular thinking - you answered your own question in your question.
You shouldn't even be in a relationship if you're still not over your ex. Being with someone "to get over someone else" is not how it works. That's not fair or respectful to the person you're with not. Unfortunately, nothing but time will make it feel better.
1 Because you have good memories of the relationship and perhaps your current is still new with memories waiting to be made. 2 You had a stronger natural love with your ex, some have to be worked at.
This has happened many times..what you can do is this: Help them get over with ex,hang out with him or her more..and eventually she'll get over it and love you but it will take time..you CANT make her/him get over her/him ex you can just help her/him.
maybe hes in the new relationship to get over you and has to leave cause its hard being around you for the moment but he could just be over you but why dont you just ask him????
Both the girl and the boy makes the first move in an ex relationship but i can tell you that im a girl and just came out of a relationship and he made the first mov
You mean over your ex? When because apparently that person had a major impact on your life to where you cant forget about him/her.
You need to tell yourself that you can. It will be hard and it even harder if this was a long term relationship but the more you tell yourself that your over him the more luck your have. Good luck, Keep strong :-).
Go back to him
you say look hun im sorry but we cant be friend because i still have feelings for you and over time those feelings begin to want to share so no we cant be friends.
Simple Answer: You don't. Your relationship is over, so get over it and move on.
When you date someone and have a relationship and your boyfriend or girlfriend breaks up with you then that makes them your ex boyfriend or ex girlfriend. 'Ex' means the relationship is over. When a couple gets married and then divorced it because 'ex husband' or 'ex wife' meaning there is either a separation and divorce and that person is no longer in your life.