Okonkwo refuses to acknowledge the "feminine" virtues of compassion, empathy, and gentleness because he associates them with weakness. He values aggression, dominance, and strength, believing these traits are necessary to achieve success and respect in his society. By rejecting the importance of the feminine virtues, Okonkwo creates inner conflict and contributes to his eventual downfall.
Ezinma is the child who is most able to understand Okonkwo's view points and what he wishes for their family. She seems to share Okonkwo's desire for family honour and is willing to sacrifice for it as well.
he's more like Obierika but Uchendu is lazy and more feminine.
Okonkwo resents taking care of his mother and sisters because in his society, it is seen as a woman's responsibility. He views his mother's inability to provide for herself as a sign of weakness, which goes against his beliefs in masculinity and strength. Additionally, Okonkwo fears being perceived as weak or feminine if he fulfills these caregiving duties.
Uchendu feels that Okonkwo is ignorant about the meaning of the mother supreme. Uchendu wishes to console Okonkwo, and bring him from his despair so that his family may survive the exile. Further, he wishes Okonkwo to not see the exile to his village as such a punishment, but rather as a safe retreat from his problems. Uchendu realized that Okonkwo did not understand what Mother Supreme truly meant, and was thus still a child. If the father does not know what it means, how can he pass it to his children?
The constant references to gender in the novel "Things Fall Apart" highlight Okonkwo's rigid adherence to traditional gender roles and his belief in male dominance. This reflects his fear of being perceived as weak or feminine in a society that values masculinity and strength. Okonkwo's adherence to gender norms ultimately contributes to his downfall as he struggles to adapt to changes in his community.
"Okonkwo was a man." "Did you see that man, Okonkwo?" "You are my son. Okonkwo, I am your father!"
had never happened before in that village.
Okonkwo was not ostracized. Okonkwo was exiled for killing a man. Okonkwo was spoken badly of when he was not outwardly repentant after breaking the Week of Peace. Okonkwo was distanced from after he kills a messenger.
Okonkwo wrestled. Okonkwo fought in wars.
Okonkwo initially felt that Ikemefuna had a positive influence on Nwoye, as he saw his son becoming more masculine and courageous. However, when Ikemefuna was killed, Okonkwo felt conflicted as he cared for the boy and realized the impact his death had on Nwoye. Ultimately, Nwoye's relationship with his father suffered as he became disillusioned with Okonkwo's violent ways.
Obierika proves himself to be a good friend to Okonkwo in this chapter by visiting him in exile, bringing him money from the sale of Okonkwo's yams, and offering him support and encouragement during his time of need. He shows loyalty and empathy towards Okonkwo, demonstrating the strength of their friendship.
Okonkwo of this time is a notable footballer. Okonkwo from Things Fall Apart is a farmer.