The is not law granting you this right, so it's up the a Probate Court.
God parents and other close family. Who ever they'll be best with
Family members
Johnny Tremain's family tree includes his parents, Mrs. and Mr. Lyte, his grandfather's family, with his deceased parents, and his uncle Mr. Lapham, Mrs. Lapham, and their daughters, Cilla and Isannah.
Jackie's parents are both deceased. All other family, including Jackie, are alive and well.
No the moneys given to the person written in the will or closest family member an only if they choose to
The possessive form for the noun the deceased is the deceased's (the deceased's family).
The family should decide who should take that position and that person would file a petition in probate court asking to be appointed Administrator. If no one is interested in making that a family decision then anyone in the family can file the petition to be appointed.
Absolutely! However, many single parents choose not to do this, due to the need to work to support their family.
family of origin
If you have become close and kept in contact with your deceased husband's parents then sit and have a talk with them first and explain that you have found another man you care about and you are going to be married. Most parents of a deceased son would understand that you need someone in your life. Then ask them if they would like to meet your fiance. If they prefer not to meet your fiance (do not take offense as they may feel obligated to the memory of their son) then abide by what they say. Hopefully they will say yes.
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The only way to get adopted by another family is if your parents are abusive towards you and you report to the police and they'll sort it out.