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sexual abuse does not have make someone gay or straight. Victims of sexual abuse bond with their abusers. So a man who was abused by a man might find himself attracted to men not because he is gay but because he wants in a way for the abuse to happen again. As odd as this sounds it does happen. this happened to me.

I am gay because I want to be with a man because I find him attractive not because I want to bond with abuser again. Here's a way to find out if your gay. Do you want to love a man or a woman? Who do you want to be with you in the hard times? Do you want a man or woman to love you? Search deep down inside.

Also therapy is a necessity for you. You need someone to help you sort out this mess. I have been in therapy for a long time. It has helped me tremendously.

By bonding I mean that you want to feel the power the abuser had over you. You want to be in his place and possibly hurting him. I hope this helps, Also go easy on your self with this sexual abuse stuff. Give your self time and space when dealing with the abuse.

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There is no direct correlation between childhood sexual abuse and one's sexual orientation or attraction in adult life. One's sexual orientation is determined by a complex interplay of biological, genetic, and environmental factors, and it is not solely determined by one's past experiences. It is important to approach these matters with empathy and respect for individual experiences and identities.

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