I'm pretty sure a retired police officer can not search you for weapons (frisk you) and if they did then they could be charged with impersonating a cop. If that person that is frisked is under the age of 18 then the retired cop could be put on the sex offenders list.
Totally! He is a cop =D
Depends entirely on what department he is employed by.
not if you let him search it
Unless there is some specific prohibition in your area, yes. In fact the idea that a male searches a male and a female searches a female is normally policy, not regulation. A small department may not have an officer of the 'correct' sex available when a search needs to be done, so whoever is available can perform the searches.
Yes
soapy was not allowed
If the cop has a warrant or if he thinks you stole something or if the cop thinks you have a weapon in a place you are not suppose to have the weapon.
Yes, if he otherwise has legal reasons to search her.
search and seizure requires probable cause. which means the cop will have had to know that you committed a crime and a stop and frisk only requires reasonable suspicion but the cop can not actually search you they can only pat down the outside of your clothing to make sure you don't have any weapons. In that case they should only be ""Frisking"" you for their own safety to make sure you do not have a weapon that can be used against them. If do they happen to feel a pound of weed on you during a stop and frisk then they have Probable cause to search and seize you and the evidence. :)
Only if they don't have probable cause.
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Stand still - and accept it ! If they have grounds to carry out the search - and you try to stop them - you can be charged with obstruction !