Is a woman cheating if she refused to answer the same questions she asked you?

Oh boy, women are a fickle lot aren't they. It's enough to send most strong men into a rubber room. She could be trying to act mysterious and keeping you on your toes. The question is, "Does she need to keep you on your toes?" She may have asked you because she suspects you are, or she's been hurt in the past by someone she loved cheating on her and she's not quite sure of you. The best way to get this settled is to ask her this question again, but this time tell her a relationship is suppose to mean communicating with each other and since she asked you the question "what is good for the goose is good for the gander." Good luck.