Is an 11-year-old boy gay if he wears his mother's bra?

Answer 1

=== === === === === === You are gay if you are sexually or romantically interested in the same sex. This has nothing to do with wearing women's clothes. Many men, both gay and straight, enjoy wearing women's clothes. This is called Transvestism. Women have been wearing men's trousers for years. It's nothing much to get excited about. And it certainly isn't a sign that you are gay.

It's OK to be interested in lady's underwear. Often young men become interested in the differences between boys and girls and don't understand how to direct that interest. When that happens, a boy can become obsessed. It might be better for you to find a friend who is also a girl (not necessarily a girl friend) and learn to be comfortable around girls. It's difficult, but once you are able to feel comfortable around girls, you might even be able to find a girlfriend. But don't be in a hurry, you have plenty of time. Once you find a way to be around girls you might find that they are a lot more interesting than underwear. The important thing for now is to not pay too much attention, either way, to things like an interest in girl things. When we focus on things that don't really matter, we can cause more problems for ourselves than if we can learn to focus on the important things. If you're concerned, you can talk to your school counselor. In fact, that might be a good idea. The counselor should be able to promise that he/she won't tell your parents or anyone else. Often it's helpful to just be able to talk to someone and get assurance that feeling the way you do is OK.