Is it a good choice if you want to lose your virginity or could you bleed to death?

Answer 1

Losing Your VirginityWell, if you want to lose your virginity, that's your choice and if it is a "good choice" is only a perceptual thing. If you consider it a good choice then so be it, that makes it a good choice then. As for the health risk....I have one word for this.....Rubber....Use a condom and all should be fine. There is always a potential risk of catching an STD. As long as you know the person you intend on loosing your virginity to is someone you trust and know well enough, all shall be just fine. Do end up with a Baby though...

• The above is one view. Here is another: Situational ethics (whatever you consider "right" for you is right) is simply wrong. Choices have consequences, and loosing your virginity can have consequences that you can not foresee until your virginity is already lost. As for loosing your virginity with someone you know and trust, there are girlfriends and wives who get STDs from their "trusted" boyfriends and husbands.

Since you did not give your age, I am guessing that you are in your teens, possibly your early teens. In my opinion and based on my experience, I believe it is a bad choice to loose your virginity at that time in your life. Though many young people think it's cool, grown-up, etc. to lose your virginity, those who keep their virginity until they are older, preferably until they are married, are the ones who make the wise and good choice. Maybe that sounds "old fashioned," but I lost my virginity at 18 and now that I am older, I understand that there can be emotional and psychological effects that you do not foresee until after the choice has been made and there is no going back.

If I could live my teenage years over, I wouldn't so much as allow a boy to touch me in the wrong places. I now understand that it is always best in whatever decisions you are making to keep your values and morals high.

A friend of mine (male) had this to say, "Tell her to be a stand-out and keep her virginity." Though not many boys will admit it, they have more respect for girls who say "no" than those who have sex with them.