Teen abstinence is the safest, healthiest lifestyle, but understanding the power of the oxytocin hormone makes the importance of teen abstinence even clearer.
Oxytocin is a hormone that is released in a woman during childbirth, nursing a child, and during sexual activity. It creates a strong bond between the woman and the other involved. In the case of childbirth and nursing this bond is important because it creates a nurturing environment for the child.
In a marriage relationship where sex is safe and beneficial, oxytocin helps keep the bond between a husband and wife strong. Outside of marriage however, the oxytocin bond can increase the emotional pain when the relationship has ended. The oxytocin hormone is impartial. Whether during sexual activity between husband and wife or in a teenage hook-up, the hormone is still released and the bond is still created. Oxytocin promises an involuntary chemical commitment.
The oxytocin bond explains why teens suffer emotionally after breakups, and
often even during a relationship. Sex was created to unite two people, bringing a bond unlike any other relationship. This powerful bond is what sustains husband and wife until "death do us part" contributing to trust and security. Outside of marriage the release of oxytocin can lead to distrust, hostility, and insecurity. Sexual relationships without commitment still have a lasting bond. Oxytocin even has the power to sustain attachment within abusive relationships.
Abstinence is the safest, healthiest choice for teens to prevent negative emotional, social and physical consequences. Even if the mind has set boundaries, the physiology of the body cannot. Abstinence protects from the emotional attachments that dramatically affect teens. But even more, abstinence protects their future.
Being attracted to guys means nothing relative to whether he loves you. If he loves you and wants to be with you, then it is no different to you being attracted to someone else but being with him.
Yes, he probably wants to screw you.
Yes, of course, Attraction denotes liking something. You can be socially attracted, and so on. You could aspire to her this could also mean you are attracted to her.
Be his friend.
He is probably attracted to you and wants the relationship to move beyond just friendship.
If she really wants to know she should ask him herself.
You should decide if you really do like her first; and I'm not saying that you shouldn't tell her, but consider your boyfriends too, if anything does happen.
if he was your ex you should be over him. If your not over him you should tell your friend or try to get him back.
Get your own boyfriend...
Wants to do her>?Arnt you a little young for that? Wants to do her>?Arnt you a little young for that?
See what she wants but don't get your hopes up. Be a friend and help her.
if shes dating anyone, she should keep the condom!