IMO, he is definitely controlling. As far as abusive, I would think you have to decide how his behavior makes you feel. Angry, sad, uncomfortable, or even scared? The "tantrums" seem to me, however, a pretty good sign of where your relationship is headed. I believe his actions may very well escalate into physical confrontations.
how can you put up with that? I couldn't. If you don't already, imagine having kids with him...
Life is a series of compromises. We don't always get to behave the way we want or to do the things we wish. Often, we have to accommodate the demands of our partners, spouses, lovers, children, neighbors, friends, colleagues - and country. Such inevitable compromises are not abusive. They form the fabric of society and of the social contract (treaty).
A thin line separates healthy accommodation from psthological abuse.
NO! Unless he puts a gun or knife to your head!
yes it is!!! i know what you're going through. my boyfriend physically wouldn't let me put on a top i wanted to wear once cuz it was sleeveless and he then proceeded to go through all my clothes telling me which once i was not allowed to wear. yeah, he is convincing you that your body is dirty and that you are a bad woman for wanting to show it off. but the female body is beautiful and you should be able to wear whatever you want to show it off. it is definetely a form of emotional and sexual abuse.
As an adult you are entitled to make your own decisions and to choose your own preferences without your boyfriend infringing on what is YOUR domain and an expression of your personality, tastes AND your capacity to make an adult decision about what is and what is not an appropriate presentation in given circumstances.
It's undermining and controlling on his part and one might wonder what it is that attracted you to him if he is actually disapproving of the way you ARE.
If you find yourself acquiescing to HIS preferences to please HIM, I think that's a step in the wrong direction because you're eroding your individuality and if you do so in other arenas, it's likely that this could wind up an abusive dynamic where one party controls or manipulates the other and so forth.
Of course, there needs to be compromise in relationships. If you were asked to wear something conservative to perhaps a funeral or something of that kind, fair enough. But if a man expects you to generally alter who you are and how you express your individuality to suit his whims, this is not a good sign.
It's not really abuse in itself, but it is definitely controlling. Something like "you have to wear THESE clothes" could turn a lot uglier and get a lot worse as your relationship progresses. So basically, it's not a good sign.
Sav is a great guy. He makes the best boyfriend too.
Cool Clothes are relative. Just wear what makes you feel good, try to stay current on the latest trends and don't be afraid to experiment with your style!
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No, there are no laws in Virginia that makes it illegal for a custodial parent to live with their boyfriend or girlfriend. If you feel you child is unsafe in this situation, you will have to pursue custody through the courts.
It impowers the abuser and makes the person being abused feel weaker. Both can render an individual ansure of themselves. My friend and I were both in abusive relationship, hers was that her boyfriend physically would beat her for every small thing she did wrong. Mine was that my boyfriend would play games with me by acting sad then when I got concerned he'd tell me he was "just joing". One complant both our new partners have is that neither one of us (me or my friend) is very decisive, we're always second guessing one another. Some scars are physically and some are mental but both can come from horrid situations.
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On Panfu Lily in the beauty salon makes the clothes
what you call a machine that makes clothes is a sewing machine.
If you're boyfriend makes you nervous, try talking to him about what he does that makes you nervous. If he just makes you nervous in general, then I would reconsider the relationship as a whole.
yes, it's part of the tramazing part. makes you think you deserve it. when really you don't. no one deserves to be abbused.
she makes her own cloths
No, because if they are still being abusive, they see the world from another perspective. If you are expecting that this will happen or that you can convince someone that they are abusive, chances are that you won't see it happen. About all you can do is to call them on their behavior, saying how it makes you feel. A good book is Patricia Evan's The Abusive Relationship.
They do.
Makes it green and makes it delicious. Do it, your boyfriend will love it.
I don't know.But you can ask your boyfriend because he's the one who makes them
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