The answer to whether it is bad for women to have alot of guy friends depends on the people involved and how the relationship is defined. If they are just friends, then trust should not be an issue. If they are more than friends, then trust may be an issue.
If someone says they have a trust issue, they usually mean they have trouble trusting people for whatever reason. If you want them to trust you, you should ask them why they have a trust issues, just so you can understand the situation better.
It sounds like he has a trust issue and is very overbering. I would be concerned.
trust me they are more than just friends wink wink ;) ;)
Of course it's appropriate for you to have friends (of any sex, for that matter). Are you supposed to stop having a social life once you get married just because your spouse doesn't like it?There is no problem with having friends-and the gender shouldn't matter, because you're married and if your spouse can't even trust you enough, then he is the one with problems.
it's not that women and men can't be friends, it's just that they don't understand each other's needs
"The One Where Monica and Richard Are Just Friends"
Do you trust your girlfriend? if you do then no worries pal just let her hang with them and if they really are not the greatest people then she will figure it out...
With your behaviour, trust, love & time
Just because you are married does not mean that she automatically doesn't have friends anymore. This is more of a control issue than a cheating issue. Why don't you want her to have the occasional girls night out? Most people who are controlling like that are guilty of something themselves. Women need to socialize with their friends just like men do, whether they are married or not. Take a step back and let her go out with her girlfriends once and a while. If she wants to be out with them EVERY night then the two of you should sit and talk about what is and isn't appropriate in your marriage.
Just be like , Hey I think it would be better if we were just friends I've used this before , trust me it works !
Talk to him. Invite him to an outing with your guy friends. If he can't seem to trust you, it's probably time to break up because if there is no trust, there is no relationship. Try to work things out before making such a decision.
Ask your guy friends and any women friends you might have to sometimes include you in social activities where there will be women, and not necessarily all women who are already with guys. Just start slow, and treat these occasions as what they are-- enjoyable social events with friends. Just mingle and talk, no commitments, no drama, no expectations. You might find some women whose company you like, and just strike up friendships. Women are just like guys, only different. You have guy friends who are not like your other guy friends, right? Same thing. After a while the differences will start to grow on you. You'll see.