Is it narcissistic to marry and divorce two different women twice each and divorce the last one for the second time to date a married woman?

Answer 1

Yes, this sounds quite a lot like what happened in my situation. In my case, my ex married me once, and then divorced me, and dated a married woman (she was technically married, as was he, since neither of their divorces were final at the time). Then she dumped him (smart woman) and he returned to me and we got remarried. A couple of years passed and he got restless and started "looking for someone to be in love with" because he "needed to feel in love with someone." (Notice that how the other person feels is irrelevant, not to mention how I felt!) So by this time, I had had it, and I started divorce proceedings. The divorce took over a year because there was by now a child involved (a child he has never taken any interest in, which is probably in the child's best interests, sad to say). As a result he was still married when he took up with the next girlfriend, although he neglected to tell her this for a good six months! They are no longer together and he is currently annoying me with his pleas for help and conversation and I assume he thinks I am available to be his gravy train again! Well he's wrong this time. Whoever you are in the above scenario, I'd advise only one thing: get out. Get as far away as you can and don't talk to him, just ignore him and start a new life with real people and real relationships. Good luck to you. That is, unless you are the narcissist in the above scenario, and in that case, I have nothing to say to you. Marriage and remarriage to the same person indicates a fickle mind and instability. IF it is that bad just live together because marrying and divorcing and marrying is worse, attorneys love it.