Is it okay if you kissed passionately on the first date but no clothes came off and then slowly you started getting more personal but have not had sex?

Answer 1

but we got personal more after first date not on same night That all depends on: #1 your personal morals #2 those of the person you were with #3 what direction you want the relationship to head If you think it was ok, and the person you were with thinks it was ok, then it probably is ok. However, it is often the case, that the quicker people become intimate, the lower standards they have for the relationship. People who have sex very quickly often don't stay together very long and the relationship sometimes becomes overly based on sex. If you want it to last, the best advice is wait until you are SURE it is the right time to become more and more intimate. The fact that you are asking this question shows that you probably aren't 100% comfortable with what's going on, and the best advice would be to slow things down.