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No. You might care about both of them a lot, but you only love one of them; most likely your other lover. Someone who you love is the person who you know that you can talk to about anything, anytime. You would trust them with absolutely anything. If you needed someone to tallk to about something serious (something that neither of them are involved with personally), which one would you pick? That's the one you love. Some affairs are entirely physical. Your husband doesn't satisfy you sexually, but your still love him. Or sometime it's the other way around. You may have been satisfied sexually the whole time, but felt like your husband wasn't providing the emotionaal support for you, or you couldn't trust him and open up to him, and then you found someone else who you could talk to and open up to. In this case you love the other guy, and not your husband.

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Q: Is it possible to love two people at the same time such as your husband and a lover?
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