Is it right for a twelve year old girl to want yo be put into bondage?

Answer 1

Twelve-year-old girls have fertile imaginations. Some want to have babies, others want to be top executives, some want to be princesses, and some want to be bitten and turned into vampires.

Bondage is a little unusual; at that age, most girls are trying to free themselves from being under the thumbs of their parents. Sado-masochistic urges at this age may indicate that the child has been sexually abused. Or not.

Many 12-year-old girls have gone through menarche. State laws setting the age of consent at 16-18 are, in a way, like King Canute ordering the tide not to come in. On the other hand, one isn't really a mature adult until his med-20s.

Kids make mistakes, and when they swallow a mistake, they learn and grow. The rest of us, however, have to keep an eye out for the mistakes that swallow the kid.

Sounds like this kid needs a mentor, not to order the kid around (which rarely works) so much as to listen, and to ask pointed questions. Kifs generally do the right thing if they take the time to think - but taking the time to think yends to be a problem at any age,

Answer 2

It is important for children and adolescents to understand healthy boundaries and consent. If a twelve-year-old girl expresses an interest in bondage or any other sexual activity, it is important for her to have age-appropriate and comprehensive sex education, as well as support from a trusted adult to navigate these feelings and understand them in a safe and healthy way.