Is it unhealthy if your boyfriend and you are inseparable and always together but he wants you there and vice versa?

Answer 1

It isn't healthy to be glued to the hip with each other. Why? Because you never get to truly know yourself and the biggy is, there are twists and turns in our lives. It's obvious you love each other very much, but think of this: You date and stick together like glue, then you get engaged and stick together like glue, then you get married and have children and do the same thing all over again. Well that's fine for the time being, but we all get old, so what happens if one of you gets very ill and perhaps passes away? You are left vulnerable, not independent and extremely lonely. More so than most widows. You look around and realize that your friends have quit waiting for you because you never took the time to keep up with them through the years. You are alone! When you don't do some things on your own, you lose wisdom and lose touch with those around you. There is a world out there, and it's worth investigating. Basically what I am saying is, if you don't stop clinging to each other as you are doing you'll be "stunt your mental growth." I can bet that your friends (at least) have told you they never see you and you never go out with your girlfriends. You may have friends over or even go out with friends, but it's not the same one-on-one relationship you would have with girlfriends and the same applies to your boyfriend with his buddies. Before you know it your friends will have given up and moved on. Think of all the wonderful times you are missing with your girlfriends and your boyfriend is missing out on memories with his buddies. This seems to be a problem of insecurity your boyfriend has. This isn't love, but a "need." You two have to sit down and talk. Please take heed to what your friends are saying.