Is it weird when a girl asks a guy out?

Answer 1

I think its wonderful if a girl asks a guy out (not weird at all!), I know the old fashion way (boy asks girl) was way easier on the girl but these days the guy is just as nervous as the girl when it comes to putting them selves out there and asking the other out.

To make sure you dont make a fool of yourself ask this before making your move:

Do i like him enough to ask?

How would i respond if he said Yes! -where would you go? -when

What if he said no (should think of how you would respond)

Are there any signs that he like me back?

Where and when would i ask him?

If you are going to ask him , its always best face to face

DONT DO:

Ask your friend to ask him out for you

Ask him out over text- as once you have sent it ANYONE can read that message

Dont ask a guy out as a prank! - thats just mean!

Dont ask someone out to "improve" your popularity - it just gets awkward!

If you are going to ask him out do it in a private place so what ever happens neither you or the guy will feel pressured or embarrassed what ever the outcome.

It would be a good idea to "flirt" - get to know him better before you put yourself out there- see how he responds when you touch him like on the arm - is there a connection? does he smile, or stare at you weirdly - just follow your instincts! they can be spot on! :D

Answer 2

Its unusual. But usually the guys does the move.