There is no specific tradition of lighting candles at a bat mitzvah ceremony. In fact, if the ceremony is held on a Saturday, candles cannot be lit because it is Shabbat.
A candle lighting ceremony isn't a traditional part of a bat mitzvah service so there's no established rule regarding who participates. If you can't decide on what order to invite people up to participate, try discussing it with your rabbi for his or her input.
A bat mitzvah is the second most important event in a Jewish female's life. It's an event to be celebrated.
The plural for a bat mitzvah is a b'nai mitzvah
Bar Mitzvah gifts are not important at all. They serve to show the boy that he is loved (or girl, if it's a bat mitzvah), but they are optional.
NO Barmitzvah's are for men. BATmitzvah's are for women
For newborns: Brit Milah for boys; Zeved Habat for girls; At age 3 years (In Chassidim) Upsherins for boys; First Shabbat candle lighting for girls. For Teens; Bar Mitzvah for boys; Bat Mitzvah for girls. Marriage.
Instead of calling up 12 relatives (or groups) and then the kid guests for #13, try to make there be more people for each candle. Also, instead of saying a long poem for each one, summarize the experiences in a few lines. Have the photographer ready to take the picture of the bar/bat mitzvah with the relatives while they are lighting the candles, not afterward.
The Bar Mitzvah is a Jewish ceremony that dates to the 13th century and confirms that a Jewish boy has come of age and should be seen as an adult in the community. The celebration of coming of age remains an important rite in Judaism.
The Bat Mitzvah takes place in the synagogue.
You can order bat mitzvah invitations at stationary stores.
Girls Bar Mitzvah is called a Bat Mitzvah. A Bat Mitzvah happens when a Jewish girl turns 12 years old. Once the girl reaches that age she is an adult according to the Jewish law. This means that the girl will have to follow all applicable rules. During the ceremony the Bat-Mitzvah girl will wear the dress of her choice.
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