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Is not trusting one another something to break up over if two people are in love?
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∙ 10y ago
YES.I got the same problem the only reason i didnt breakup with my girl is because i love her.If you love your girl then you gotta find a way deep down to trust her belive me its hard but if i can do it you can do it.Another thing if you are in love with her you should be able to trust her that she ain't gonna do anything behind your back in the first place.
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Plain and simply, yes. If you do not, you run the risk of doing what I've done - and that is create a pattern of insecurity and jealousy which causes a slew of other problems. I was with my boyfriend for 5 years. We were the best of friends for 4 years prior to being an exclusive couple. For some reason, I always had a sinking suspicion about an ex-girlfriend of his and I couldn't get it out of my head. And it destroyed me. And now it's destroyed us. I got to a point where the distrust was so bad, I was questioning everything he did - even going to a friend's house for an hour or two. It was horrible. And wrong. And he put up with it for a really long time, he was amazing. But finally, enough was enough. By staying with me, we did not break the cycle. I kept up my suspicions and he kept dealing with the stress caused by my immaturity. Now we have broken up, after 5 years, over something so silly and unnecessary. It was painful, as we both looked each other and told each other we still loved each other, but that the cycle had to stop. Something had to give. If you are not trusting your partner... step back and re-evaluate. Do you have a real reason not to trust them, or is it just delusions you are creating on your own? If the latter, please do yourself a favor and don't make the same mistake I did. Because you stand to lose your lover, your best friend, and the only person who ever meant anything to you. And I don't wish this pain on anyone.
AnswerThat would depend on the reason for the distrust. If you distrust each other because you have both been hurt in the past and haven't known each other long enough to build a trusting relationship yet, then yes you should stick it out and see if you can build something together. If the distrust is because you have both been doing some shady dealings against each other and have lost that trusting bond, then yep it's a great reason to end the relationship. What do you have if you don't have trust??? AnswerTrust is very important. Unless they have given each other serious reasons not to trust each other, they should just have faith in one another. AnswerIf you don't have trust then you really can't have a fulfilling relationship. Explore the reasons for the mistrust. If there is no basis for it in your relationship, then I would suggest couples' counseling or at least a self-help book designed to deal with this issue. An AnswerYES!!!That's what a relationship IS. The strength of the relationship is simply measured by how much you trust each other, it's in the definition - stronger relationships are very trusting and weaker ones less so. But if there isn't any trust at all, then it's hard to even call it a relationship; it might as well be an acquaintance that you're friendly with.Answer:
No, it is not necessary. I was in a relationship with a girl for two years and later on due one silly reason she broke up, however, when I tried to patch with her, she purposely betrayed that trust, she use to ignore my calls and speak with another guy for hours and I use wait for her to answer my call. Later on, I came to know just after a month of our break off she got in to another relationship, some how, I got her out of this relationship but she got in to another this time with her ex BF, I don't explain in words what I'm going through now. If she really loved she could have build that TRUST in me again., but her thinking is that when she doesnt wants to spend her life with me then why will she build that trust in me. I'm currently totally broken looking for ways how remove this thing out of my mind and only way I think is by giving up my life, its not beause of her its just that I need peace of mind and only way to forget this thing. I tried many things but still can't forget her, but doesnt wants to spend her life with me just coz she found a better option than me in her life. Do you think she will ever repent for her mistake or is it just my mistake that I love her so much.
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∙ 10y ago
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∙ 9y agoYes, it might become a reason for break up. If you two are really in love you should be loyal to each other. You should not have blind trust on them but trust them .
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