Not for all women.
It can be for a woman, depending on various physical and emotional
factors. Some women's first times were painful, some women had no
pain at all.
Best advice? Make the guy use a condom and a water based
lubricant (k-y jelly). Make sure the guy you are with takes the
time to sexually arouse you (if you're a guy, take the time to
arouse the girl--you'll enjoy it.) Also, don't have sex until you
are 100% comfortable with the idea and are not being persuaded into
It sort of can be for some, not for others. It also depends on how
big the guy is and how small you are. It can hurt, however, if the
guy loves you, the two of you will be able to deal with it. Also,
you NEED to use a condom. You NEED to deal with birth control.
Welcome to the world of woman hood.
It was a little painful for me.. I didn't bleed. If you do plan to
have sex, just make sure you talk to your partner first and have
him understand to take it easy.
Hello, are people really this naive???! Hymenectomy, you can have
the hymen removed BEFORE you have sex. We do live in modern times
with modern inovations-such as medicine, you might have heard of
this before. As such, there is no reason for women to have to put
up with a man too eager to wait for sex that they can't have the
hymen removed. So instead, they end up with people telling them
it's normal to have it tear and to bleed for a week or so. NO IT'S
NOT! Have the hymen removed. This won't cure all the other problems
but it will sure help.
Hello, did you notice that some people can't afford that kind of
surgery? It should be natural anyway. Sex was painful the first
time and I bled, but I did it with someone worthy enough.