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Is sex painful the first time?

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November 21, 2010 12:31PM

Yes.

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Not for all women.

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It can be for a woman, depending on various physical and emotional factors. Some women's first times were painful, some women had no pain at all.

Best advice? Make the guy use a condom and a water based lubricant (k-y jelly). Make sure the guy you are with takes the time to sexually arouse you (if you're a guy, take the time to arouse the girl--you'll enjoy it.) Also, don't have sex until you are 100% comfortable with the idea and are not being persuaded into it.

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It sort of can be for some, not for others. It also depends on how big the guy is and how small you are. It can hurt, however, if the guy loves you, the two of you will be able to deal with it. Also, you NEED to use a condom. You NEED to deal with birth control. Welcome to the world of woman hood.

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It was a little painful for me.. I didn't bleed. If you do plan to have sex, just make sure you talk to your partner first and have him understand to take it easy.

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Hello, are people really this naive???! Hymenectomy, you can have the hymen removed BEFORE you have sex. We do live in modern times with modern inovations-such as medicine, you might have heard of this before. As such, there is no reason for women to have to put up with a man too eager to wait for sex that they can't have the hymen removed. So instead, they end up with people telling them it's normal to have it tear and to bleed for a week or so. NO IT'S NOT! Have the hymen removed. This won't cure all the other problems but it will sure help.

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Hello, did you notice that some people can't afford that kind of surgery? It should be natural anyway. Sex was painful the first time and I bled, but I did it with someone worthy enough.