That is a 'depends' answer.
The origins of who pays depends on the outlook. It breaks down thus:
Wife's Family pays: The father is paying an added thank you for the groom taking the bride out of the household so that food and living expenses are less, and to add to their beginning life so that the bride might have a home or better home.
Husband ('s Family) Pays: To prove that he can provide for the bride, and to give the bride something to fall back on should the marriage fail [also provides for her should the marriage fail since the thought is it would ruin her chances for marriage, having been rejected once already].
AND origin of country effects the answer .... want to be traditional? Pick one and enjoy :D
Dowry.
It has been an Asian tradition for the family of the bride to give the groom's family a dowry. A dowry serves as a gift for the groom and his family for marrying a girl. A dowry can be in kind or in monetary form.
A dowry is given to a prospective groom from the bride's family. This may have been money, livestock or valuable goods.
A dowry system is something that is used often in India. This is where gifts are given to a bridegroom's family in exchange for the bride to be married to the man.
The practice of wrapping the feet of women was instituted during this era. Supposedly, the feet were to represent the Lilly flower and thus garnered a higher dowry when the women was given for marriage.
In 1468 King Christian I of Norway gave the Orkney Islands as a security for his dowry of his daughter Margaret who was betrothed to James III. The dowry was never paid.
A dowry is either property or money given to the husband by the bride on their wedding. The practice is used as tradition in India but it was not allowed until after 1961. Some have questioned the ethical side of it, as sometimes women may have control of the money after the wedding.
girls required a good musical talent to secure a good marriage
If the father of the bride give the groom a large sum of money; a place in the father's business or land it is called a 'dowry.'
The old Chinese custom (it can still be implemented today) is the parents (the father generally has the say) to arrange a marriage between a son and a bride chosen for him or a daughter with a husband chosen for her that they deem suitable, profitable to ensure happiness. Depending on the financial status of the Chinese parents often a dowry is given when they present their daughter for marriage.
Below can be reasons to say no to dowry.1. If a man wants to SELF MADE MAN.2. If the amount of dowry is below his dignity.3. This happens only in INDIA- Ask for a certificate from Bride's family that no dowry was ever asked / given as Dowry Law + Criminal charges U/S 498A is worst law of the world. Each years 100s of children & tens of thousands of women of boy's family are put in jails without any investigation.The practice of dowry is world wide. It is known as bride's share also.
Bombay ( now called as Mumbai)