You can ice them daily but that is a temporary fix. There is really no way other than surgery to reduce the size of one's nipples whether you're a man or a woman.
go to the dr and ask for them to be made smaller, it will cost you though, probs about 10-15 K
At 14, you are just starting puberty, and your body is changing. It is possible your nipples will extend naturally, though some women have flat nipples. After child birth the nipples usually extend sufficient to nurse a baby. Either way, don't worry about it. I think men you date will like your breasts however they are.
The same way you make a guy's nipples hard.
For the girl, it shouldn't matter. As for what other people think - well, people are different. Some like'em big, some like'em small, others won't care either way.
Ice
Well, your nipples swell when you get aroused or cold. But apart from that, there is no permanent way to increase the size of your nipples.
All humans, both male and female, have nipples. The only way a person will not have nipples is if they have been surgically removed. If someone should be born without nipples (either male or female) this is an abormality. Related link: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nipples
Your nipples are probably not "sucked in", but simply inverted. Some people's nipples are just naturally this way, and is not harmful or bad in any way. Everyone's breasts and nipples vary wildly, despite what you see in the media. Inverted nipples are not normally an issue for breastfeeding or anything else. Surgery is possible to change the shape and protrusion.
Well you could do nothing or go to the doctors or have surgery but there is nothing wrong with your body be proud of it many have asked this question and the only true answer is be happy with the way you are. :)
Women are a part from guys. god created man then woman. Eve was made out of Adam. women are made for men. All human beings have breasts and with breasts come nipples. the breasts are formed before the sex of the individual has come into play, the same way woman have clitoris, because if the DNA had not kicked in to say this individual is female, the penis will keep developing and the scrotum and testicles will develop, otherwise the penis production stops as a clitoris, the potential scrotum develops into labia and vulva, and the ovaries stay in the body cavity
"They like the way they move. It's a familiar kind of dance, monkey nipples … they both knows it".
the way one can enjoy stimulation is by pulling ur nipple in and out squeezing it pinching it ,but if u staring pulling at it ,it can grow big and can secreate some fluiud and it will often get erect on sexual thoughts,u will reach organsm on pulling ur nipples go ahead enjoy guys
way too early for your nipples to be feeling like they are leaking. normally its just sore nipples/darker nipples or aerola. and heavy/sore boobs hun.