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What is the usage of the term "narcissist" and how does it reflect upon this situation. I do not understand. nar
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What do you do if you have reached an impassse with your narcissistic spouse and they are prolonging the silent treatment toward you?
Go to counseling. Rejoice! And again I say, rejoice! There is no silence more golden than a narcissist's. To not have to hear that annoying voice! It is truly heaven. Let me tell you how things work with a narcissist. They come from opposite land in Bizarro universe. The only way to get a narcissist to be nice to you is to (paradoxically) treat them terribly by ignoring them entirely. If the narcissist is ignoring you, you must have done something awfully decent and nice to deserve this. Do you see the impossibility of ever successfully dealing with and having a relationship with such a person? I would say, take immediate advantage of the impasse and the resulting silence by leaving the narcissist. No matter what you do, never pay any attention to the narcissist again, and don't talk or call or write unless forced by law to do so. The narcissist will always think of you, in the Bizarro universe way, as a wonderful person and will crave your attention, which you will never give. Thus exacting justice on the narcissist while taking back your life. Too bad you have to be mean to show a narcissist how wonderful you are, but you didn't start this thing. You should be the one to end it, though.
What was Salvador Dali like?
narcissist , insane (he like people to think so any way for publicity, attention seeking , artistic , a great self publicist
Any Way You Want It?
"Any Way You Want It" by Journey.
If a narcissist ask you not to make contact again do they have a way of making contact with you again?
It is highly unlikely that a narcissist would do that, they might need you later on. The only reason they would ask this is, they fear that you are becoming dangerous to them. Even so, they live for the moment. At some point they may call upon you again. It all depends on what is going on in their lives and weather or not they have anyone else to call upon.
When was Any Way You Want It created?
Any Way You Want It was created in 1980.
When was I want to Feel That Way Again created?
I Wanna Feel That Way Again was created on 1998-06-22.
You have to negotiate with a narcissist to get something you really want from him so how best to approach him in order to get him to agree to what you want?
Well, I would stay away from a narcissist altogether. However, if you want something from them, the only way is to appear extremely weak and helpless to them, and flatter them like hell. You pretty much have to humiliate yourself to get anything out of them. That's why its best to just stay away.
How do you help a narcissist?
The question is help them how? Refer them to counseling, but they don't want to be fixed, though you may want to fix them to be a 'normal' person so you can keep a relationship with them. If you are a lay person and in a relationship with a narcissist, you cannot help them. Just by the nature of your relationship and the pathology of a narcissist, things will get ugly, it will be at your expense and there will be no change in the narcissist. A good therapist will be the one to help a narcissist, but it takes a great deal of work on the part of the narcissist, a commitment to healing, only they don't see themselves as 'broken' or anything wrong with them, so an honest introspective communication with a therapist is rare. It's so hard to understand. Leaving them is best for you though and isn't that sad that that is also the way to help a narcissist, because they are sucking your goodness from you and using it to buoy themselves. So sad.
Once a narcissist starts to give you the silent Treatment Which Has Been Going On For Months can you safely assume that will be the last you will here from them again?
oh, please don't fall for it,the way i did. and i tell you from experience, all the narcissist wants is ATTENTION, so he she wants you to beg for forgiveness, then he/she is gonna play hard to get, i don't consider it to be a healthy relationship to be giving all that attention a narcissist wants, because soon, whether you realize it or not he/she is only gonna want you for himself,oh and to actually answer your question, yes, i think that that was the last time you might have herd of him/her, because narcissist have a lot of pride and they are not gonna just let it go,but don't feel bad and get on with your life......luck:)
How does no contact work with a narcissist?
No contact is the best way to part ways with a narcissist. You must remain consistent and end contact completely and forever.
Does explaining to a Narcissist how they act and how dysfunctional they are help them to change?
Best guess, it can. There is no other way for a true narcissist to be aware of issues within him or herself.
Narcissist in love with a narcissist?
It's certainly possible. A narcissist may date another narcissist that is more selfish than they are to feel better about themselves. In turn say "i'm not as selfish as he/she is so that makes me above him/her). It's incredible and shocking the way people with this disorder think. It takes a lot of research to understand a narcissist.
