Is your huband cheating if you've been married for 16 years and your husband forgets your birthday and all other days that matter but does not forget to get a gift for the secretary at work?

There are plenty of business that will attempt to get a little extra income by reminding businessmen of 'Admin' week, but who is there to remind him of wife's birthday, anniversary or kids birthdays? Maybe the thing to do would be to try to spice up the marriage. Make him a little more interested in YOU. Don't get upset if he doesn't respond at first. Many men get real focused on their business and it doesn't necessarily mean anything bad about the marriage. Remember that there was something special there when you first met and started dating. Try to recapture THAT. Yea, it sounds all very one-sided, but sometimes you have to fight for what you want.