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Did he? yes indeed he did had an affair with someone he met on line dating site. This woman was also married but it said divorce while my ex was "others" They chit chat for a while on line and exchange telephone numbers and email address. And after that they set a date to see each others face to face, close to where we live. The other woman knows he is married, this man that I married started telling her all the sad stories about his life with me. This sad story is all about I given up on him because he never made time for me after all the self sacrifice I did since I married him.
Anyway that was past and I can't take him back anymore because I wouldn't put myself through with what he did to me and my 3 children.
Husbands do not go about telling everyone -let alone their spouses, that they are cheating so that would be hard to know.
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Yes he did and I was stupid enough to ignored his body language, and the absence of his presence at home. I thought it was work, but I was mistaken. he was having an affair with the woman he met o n a dating site..
it depends on if you can tell how your spouse has cheated on you.
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In my own opinion, there are some married man who do change after they get caught cheating. Some will loose their self respect because of the pain they've given to their wife and family. Some will be ashamed because he took away the faith that God gave to him. But there are some who never cared if cheating will ruin his wife and family, after a while he will do it again. And I can put my ex on this category...ditto!!
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did he?....wow ditto! he did while he was still married to me. I discovered it that is why now he is my ex..........and proud of it..
If your husband has broken off the affair with the mistress then your husband should do the right thing and pay child support, but that does not mean you have to accept the child into the family. If the mistress does not want the child then it is up to you whether you want to help to raise that child. If your husband is still seeing his mistress then pack his bags and kick him out and either file for a separation or divorce.
no you cant sorry
Your husband has the right to raise the baby if he is the father. By law a man needs to support that child till he or she turn legal age. The only question now is, if your husband knows about the child will he leave you and move in with his mistress and his baby. He is in a big mess right now if that baby is his..
i would tell the husband its 'me or her' and let him choose!!
He same if you did it instead. Most states are no fault.
The only possible place where you can report about a mistress living with your husband is your bedroom. Here you are missing your husband. Whose fault is this after all? You can't entertain your husband here. He has to go somewhere with a mistress. Please don't report to any external party. Solve this problem yourself. Your husband is after all your husband. The mistress is simply a mistress. I hope you understand the point.
pistol
Since your husband got the mistress pregnant this is good grounds for divorce. Your husband is entirely responsible for paying child support and this is called being responsible for your own actions. Your husband is fully to blame as he either started the affair or he could have said no to the woman. Therefore, the mistress who is pregnant has every right to keep her child. Your husband has created a great deal of pain for you or any children involved in your family; he lied and disrupted your lives and cost the most precious thing of all ... trust in each other. Most people who cheat will do it again.
If you have proof of adultery, you can sue your husband for divorce. In the US, the days of suing a mistress for "alienation of affection" are gone. You cannot obtain a money judgment for emotional damages caused by your husband's infidelity. No judge will order the mistress to pay you.
I takes 2 to tango. Forget the mistress and concern yourself with your marriage and why your husband is sleeping around.
Adultery & Concubinage [Art. 333-334]
he is trying to make his self look good for cheating with mistress