My Narcisstic says that I need continuos interest from him and he is not in a position to give it to me at this point in his life-recently divorced from his 2nd-and withdrew himself-will he come back?

Answer 1

You must pray that he does not! Are you scheming and planning to be dumpee number three? How many years do you plan to waste on him?

It's time to find your self esteem. If you are needy and have a hard time without attention, focus on something outside yourself; volunteer work, take some courses, plant something at a community garden, or anything that has a positive result. If you accomplish a small one, move on to a bigger one. Next thing you know, you won't be so needy anymore.